Percutian Terpaksa Ditunda

Dalam kesibukan kami merancang percutian sekeluarga yang dijadualkan minggu lalu, Irfan diserang demam. Pada kami, biasalah. Dia memang agak kerap demam, berselang seli dengan batuk, selsema dan sakit tekak. Mungkin by the time kami nak bercuti tu, dia akan OK. This is based on our previous experience. Daripada 4 destinasi yang disenarai pendek, kami mengambil keputusan untuk bercuti di salah sebuah pulau di pantai timur. Just to relax and have fun with family members. Mandi manda, snorkelling bersama Irfan. Bestnya... Semua kelengkapan telah pun dibeli. Maklumlah, first time nak fully bercuti di pulau. Sebelum ni hanya ambil 1 day trip je. Tu pun ke Pulau Payar je (Kat Langkawi). So kali ni memang dah get ready dengan baju mandi la, floating seat for Irfan. Cuma snorkelling equipment je tak beli. Plan nak sewa je kat sana.

Tapi, kali ni, demam Irfan tak baik-baik. Dah seminggu lebih. Mesti ada something wrong. Every 3-4 hours terpaksa bagi ubat. Sedih tengok dia asyik makan ubat je. Bila tak sihat, ragam pun menjadi. Masa nilah kesabaran seorang ibu tercabar. Terbayang susah payah ibu kita dulu jaga kita. Dahl ah masa tu takde facilities macam zaman sekarang ni. Hmm..moral of the story, hargai ibu....

Sehari sebelum kami berangkat, demam irfan makin menjadi. Muntah dan cirit birit. Kali pertama jumpa pakar, kami diberi peluang untuk jaga Irfan di rumah under strict monitoring. So, kami tak jadi bercuti. Bercuti kat rumah je la. Jaga Irfan. Bagi irfan makan antibiotic, monitor his temperature. Memang teramatlah tinggi suhu badannya. Selepas 3 hari, tiada perubahan. Maka, terpaksalah masuk wad. Hasil pemerhatian pakar menunjukkan dia diserang pneumonia. Aduh! Takutnya dengar...Now he is on his antibiotic course. Tak tahu le berapa lama...Dr kata after dah discharged nanti pun kena continue with the antibiotic...apa-apa pun ibu dan ayah doakan semoga Irfan cepat sembuh. Doakan sama ye kawan2?

After 1+ months...

Dah lama tak update blog ni.I'd been too busy lately. Tak sempat nak mengadap blog. Macam-macam hal berlaku during April, May & June. Started with my final exam, assignments and proposal report to be submitted on end of April and early May. Plus Irfan yang on and off demam yang panas sgt (his temp reached 40.2 degree). Hanya fikirkan soal kesihatan Iran je masa tu. Hati ibu mana yang tak risau bila tengok anak sakit kan?

Dalam pada sibuk uruskan hal Irfan, my husband pula demam panas. Tak pernah tengok dia demam seteruk tu. Sampai 4 days MC. Selalu 1 day dah OK. I terpaksa bertahan...otherwise, memang susah. We all dah pernah rasa semua tu last Januari. When semua tak sihat...lagi pening kepala. Masa ni lah baru I rajin nak makan multi-vit la, etc. Terpaksalah hantar report yang kelam-kabut..sedihnya...

When Irfan dah sihat betul, baru hantar dia ke taska. Hantar sehari dua, again..mild fever, selsema and batuk. Tak tahulah sampai bila i boleh sabar dengan dugaan ni semua. May be i need to find alternative. Betul juga kawan2 kata, kalau hantar anak ke taska ni...senang sakit...Should i opt for helper?

Then, my aunty pula meninggal. Terkejut betul. Coz, sebelum ni tak de problem pun. Sempatlah dia duduk rumah baru dia for 2 weeks. Sedih lagi...

Next, our trip to Perlis. Not for holiday this time. But, untuk meraikan my SIL's wedding. Tak dapat nak balik lama coz banyak urusan kat KL yang perlu disiapkan. From Kangar to Jitra, rumah pengantin lelaki..then balik KL.

Badan mula rasa tak sihat coz dah lama tak rehat...huh...but still have to prepare for presentation. Aduh! Ni dah habis present (tak pasti lagi the outcome). Kena betulkan report pula...Bila lah boleh gi bercuti nih?

Ku Sentiasa Merindui Saat Ini…

Irfan was so happy masa ni. Dapat berdukung dgn his daddy using the carrier. He really enjoy himself in the carrier. But now, when his weight dah mencecah 8.6kg, his daddy start complaining sakit belakang…Bukan ayah je yang complain, ibu pun sama. Kalau malas pakai carrier, we carry him by ourself. Time dukung tu memang tak rasa sakit, tapi…dua hari selepas tu, mulalah badan rasa sakit-sakit nak demam.

Walaupun carrier tu boleh digunakan sehingga baby cecah berat 11 kg, orang yang mendukung la mungki tak larat. Dah la, ayah and ibu ni kaki berjalan…Tak boleh jadi ni…irfan has to learn guna stroller pulak…

Stroller ni dah lama ibu beli…since dalam pantang lagi..One of her favourite stroller la…actually ada dua stroller yang I minat…quinny zapp and peg perego. End up beli peg perego…kalau boleh nak beli dua-dua..sib baik xde duit cukup…heheh… Takpela..maybe kalau next baby nanti, beli quinny pulak…boleh ke? I dah train Irfan naik stroller since habis pantang lagi, but when my hsb refuse nak guna stroller kat shopping complex (yeah! I understand…agak susah nak go to 1 floor to the other klu guna stroller), so end up guna carrier. Bila Irfan dah besar ni, nak start balik guna stroller…susah juga...have to train him…nangis je dia bila naik stroller…

That’s why ibu really merindui saat ini…saat irfan bermanja-manjaan dengan ayah n ibu dalam carrier. While ayah carry Irfan, Ibu pegang tangan irfan…bergurau…boleh peluk…rasa dekat sgt dgn dia..Bila dah naik stroller…rasa intim tu agak kurang…huhu…I really missed this moment…Yeah, whatever it is, masa akan terus berlalu…fikirlah ke hadapan…

Lunch @ Kak Suria's House

It was last two weeks event. Lambatnya update blog kan? I'm so busy right now. This coming wednesday ada final exam....nak submit assignments and report...tu yang tak update blog. Masa yang ada cuma 6-8 hours a day... lagi 18 hours tu...busy dgn tanggungjawab lain pula...tu belum tolak hal-hal lain...for example, anak tak sihat, diri sendiri tak sihat, etc...But, I believe Allah jadikan 24 hours a day tu...memang cukup untuk kita siapkan tugasan yang ada...think positive...

Back to the topic, memang best on that Sunday. Almost all my collegues from accounting and finance departments were there...enjoy every moment together. Cuma tak dapat stay lama sgt (tapi...quite lama gak...2+ hours). Bila dah bawa anak ni, tak tahan tengok anak bila dia meragam...so...terpaksa berundur...

Macam-macam cerita yang didengar. Semuanya bercita-cita tinggi...bagus la kawan-kawanku ni...Hope i pun begitu....good luck everyone....Hope we can have another gathering...kat mana pula ye? Anyway, thanks for the delicious meal....kak su. memang sedap nasi ayam tu...

Lepas bersuka ria, next day Irfan down for mild fever and sakit mata...then his fever went up and down till this week. Hope he'll get better soon...Bila dah start batuk, sakit tekak and selsema...really need extra care for him...tak sanggup tgk dia warded...try to take care of him at home...

P/S: kak Su, this pic was taken from your blog. Tak sempat nak upload my pic.

Thanks For the Visit

Last week is another "family time" for us. Mana tak nye, we had guest lagi. Seronok Irfan dapat jumpa mak lang and mak su nya. His cousin, Hazman pun datang. Sambil they all gi shopping and meeting kat KL, dapat gak jenguk Irfan. Thanks for the visit. Walaupun seketika cuma, dapat gak Irfan jumpa family nya. Sebab we all pun dah lama tak balik kg kan? Bila lama-lama tak jumpa family, takut tak kenal pula...hehehe....maklumlah, baby ni cepat lupa. Insya allah, we all pula akan balik ke kg bulan May ni. Yang sedihnya, kali ni tak sempat nak snap gambar. Myself and husband busy jaga Irfan. He is much more active sekarang. Semua benda nak dicapainya. Dah mula nak panjat sana, panjat sini...Tak sempat nak pegang camera la...pegang Irfan je. Letih...letih...But, certainly, it's a wonderful experience for both of us. Ye la, first baby kan...Paling bagus pun ambil gambar guna camera phone je. But, the quality not that good. Should i change my hp? Upgrade ke N96 pulak ke...Hmm...